Surrounding environment plays the most important rolein forming your thoughts. The people around you and the daily situations youcome across make your personality. Your actions and decisions are directly influenceby the people you are surrounded with. If you’resurrounded by negative people then you will also be not so positive about thesituations. For example- if people around you are frustrating, shouting at eachother then you will end up with the same mood and frustration. If you want to be a creative person then it’snecessary that you should surround yourself with creative things, art, and creativepeople. In your mind you have to look for creative ideas from everywhere.
Dullsurrounding and dull people will not give you any creative ideas. Let’s take this in a healthyway. If you decide to lose weight and get a beach body for summer butyour refrigerator and your kitchen is full of chips, cola, cake, soda and otherunhealthy food then it gets very difficult for you to resist the temptation.And you will end up eating one of those things and the workout you did at the gym is in vain. So if you working on a plan of losing weight then the first thing you should do is remove all thethings from your surrounding that can tempt to eat. Ignore meeting the peoplewho doesn’t support you or influence you in your decision.
Familyand friends also play the important rolein shaping your thoughts and actions. If they don’t trust your decisions then you lose trustin yourself, if they think that you cannot do it then you also startthinking that maybe seriously you can’t do it. On the other hands if yourparents are supportive then you can achieve anything you want. The people in your office or in college also change your thoughts. If you areengaged with smart and intelligent people then you also ended up with smartdecisions. They mentor you and help you to choose the right thing.
They teach you to handledifferent situations, but if your company is some people who are lazy, inactiveand don’t involve themselves in activities then you will also become lazy andpostpone the things. Make smart, hardworkingand supportive friends.Don’t afraid to opt for new opportunities becausesometimes your present work or job is not the one you wanted and it’s making you frustrated. So, don’t afraid totake any other opportunity.
If you want to be influenced by other great peoplethen you should also be influencing others. You can shape your own behavior and personality which can beinfluential for others.